Nigerian media personality and content creator, Enioluwa Adeoluwa, has criticised social media users who secretly or deliberately film men with feminine mannerisms and turn the footage into online entertainment for engagement.
Titiansloaded reports that Enioluwa expressed his displeasure in a post on his verified X account while reacting to viral clips from a recent fashion show, which generated widespread discussions about masculinity and men’s appearance in Nigeria.
He accused some content creators of deliberately targeting men whose dressing or behaviour differs from conventional expectations, editing their videos to attract controversy and sharing them without considering the possible consequences for those involved.
The media personality also advised men who attract public attention because of their appearance to exercise caution when agreeing to interviews, warning that some interviewers are more interested in generating clicks than protecting the dignity and safety of their subjects.
Addressing claims that the fashion show was evidence of Nigeria losing its men, Enioluwa dismissed the argument, pointing out that several participants wore conventional outfits, including shirts and trousers, but their appearances attracted little attention because they were not considered controversial.
He maintained that fashion events are platforms for showcasing different styles and expressions, adding that the presence of men with unconventional appearances should not be treated as a threat to masculinity.
Enioluwa further suggested that Nigerians looking for men who fit their preferred image of masculinity could find them at football stadiums during weekend matches or at gyms, rather than directing hostility towards people because of how they look.
He also criticised the practice of recording men working in hair salons, tailoring businesses, fashion studios and other creative professions before posting the footage online to attract reactions.
According to him, it is common knowledge that some men work in these industries, making the sudden outrage over their appearance or mannerisms unnecessary and hypocritical.
He warned that exposing individuals to public ridicule could make them targets of online harassment, intimidation and possible threats to their personal safety.
The media personality urged Nigerians to allow such individuals to go about their daily activities, noting that they are simply working, earning a living and pursuing their professions.
He concluded by challenging critics to focus on the millions of men who meet their personal standards of masculinity rather than constantly recording, mocking and exposing those who do not.
